LANGUAGE WARNING: Woman in Denny’s video says ‘That’s not who I am’

“It started with a look. I turned around and looked at the one gentleman and he was staring at me. And I said is there a problem? And he said, ‘no, no problem.’ And I turned back around and I kind of looked over my shoulder again and he was still staring at me and I turned around and they were all kind of talking to each other in their own language and then they all started laughing at me. And that’s basically when things started to get said. I normally don’t get that angry, I have to get provoked.

“You’re only hearing one side of the story. He decided to hit record when I was extremely irritated and heated. You don’t see the whole video, you don’t see what was said to me, things like that. So yeah, I’m extremely upset about it, cause it’s gotten, I think, way out of hand.”

In the video, recorded by and posted to Facebook by Monir Omerzai, Pocha can be heard swearing and telling the men “you’re a f***ing ignorant prick… go back to your f***ing country, we don’t need you here.”

Her husband can be seen even restraining his wife as she argues for several minutes with the three men.

“I was born and raised here. I am Canadian,” Pocha yelled.

The men are heard telling Pocha, “It doesn’t matter, we’re all Canadian. We are all Canadian.”

The argument continued, with Pocha saying, “you’re not dealing with one of your Syrian b**** right now, and I’m not going to be talked down to by you.”

Omerzai, on his Facebook page, said he’s been in Canada for 13 years and had never encountered racism like that before.

Pocha says someone from Denny’s eventually called police and the couple was asked to leave.

A manager does appear in the video posted by Omerzai but appears to stand by and allow the incident to continue.

LNN has contacted Denny’s Lethbridge restaurant. A staff member says managers are aware of the video but were not available for comment. We have also tried contacting Denny’s corporate offices, with no success.

Pocha says she’s upset the video has gone viral and now doesn’t know how to deal with it.

“I don’t know how to handle this kind of attention… I really don’t know what to do at this point in time.”

And she admits her comments were racist.

“Oh of course, of course it was. If I could take it back, I would. But I can’t.”

Her employer has also been notified and she’s not sure what any further fallout might be.

“What people are seeing isn’t the whole story. I was put down as well. There were comments made to me. My reaction was basically me just angry. Yes, I made some comments that shouldn’t have been said…I even went back to Denny’s and apologised to the manager, to the server. I told the manager if I could apologise to the men that were there, I would, for my actions. Because I mean, that’s not who I am.”

Pocha says she’s a hardworking mom of three, and it was an “off” day.

“It is what it is…but I do apologise for what I said, cause a lot of it is not me. I don’t normally say things like that.”

That said, she realises that the video can and likely will damage her reputation.

Lethbridge Police say they are looking into the incident that is being circulated on social media involving the verbal dispute.

On his personal Facebook page, Lethbridge Mayor Chris Spearman writes, “I am embarrassed to learn that this incident happened in Lethbridge. We are working hard to address racism and bigotry but can not prevent ignorance and the hostile behaviour of individuals. Most Lethbridge citizens are proud of our reputation as a city that welcomes immigrants and refugees.”

LNN has also reached out to Omerzai for comment and will post his story when that occurs as well. In a Facebook message to us, he says he will be in contact.

by Lara Fominoff

LANGUAGE WARNING: Woman in Denny’s video says ‘That’s not who I am’

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